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Friday, February 28, 2014

Opinion: Is Africa the most homophobic continent?

Abraham - February 28, 2014
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New laws in Nigeria and Uganda, plus reports throughout the continent of extortion, murder, so-called "curative rape" and abuse of LGBTI (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transsexual and intersex) -- and their allies -- are deeply concerning to many people, in and outside of Africa.
While Africa is not alone in this apparent trend, the vehemence of some of the homophobia, and the way it is being linked to pan-African struggles against Western imperialism, is striking.
Marc Epprecht
Not surprisingly, many people now view Africa as the most homophobic continent in the world. It is commendable that so many want to help in the fight against state-backed repression of sexual rights.
Before rushing in, however, let's keep four things in mind.
First, Africa is not a country. It is 54, 10 of which have signed the 2008 United Nations declaration recognizing sexual orientation and gender identity as human rights, including two which had originally opposed it but switched sides in 2011 (Rwanda and Sierra Leone).
Consenting male adult homosexual acts are legal in 14 African countries, while female-female sexuality is largely ignored outside a handful. In 2004, Cape Verde joined South Africa in decriminalizing sodomy while Botswana and Mozambique have made discrimination in the workplace on the basis of sexuality unlawful.
Gay Ugandans committing suicide
The country of South Africa has one of the most progressive constitutions in the world for protecting human rights and was a co-sponsor of the United Nations' 2011 initiative to develop global strategies to end violence and discrimination against sexual minorities.
One can be skeptical about international human rights statements and the reliability of the police and courts, especially for the poor majority. But important symbolic victories have been won in recent years across Africa, and in some cases policy reforms have been substantive.
While not highly publicized, for example, many states now provide some health education, anti-retroviral medicine and other services to men who have sex with men (condoms in prison and the like).
There has been an explosion of culturally sensitive scholarship by an emerging generation of African researchers that undermines homophobic claims.

Gay-friendly art, literature, theatre, and films have also flourished. One of Kenya's best-known authors, Binyavanga Wainaina, publicly acknowledged he was gayjust this year, joining a growing list of political, religious, and cultural figures in Africa who have spoken out forcefully against homophobia.
Second: homophobia in Africa is real and dangerous, but appearances can be deceiving. Many of the factors contributing to the recent homophobic turn in African politics have their roots outside of Africa.
Homophobes today often cite "family values" as a traditional reason Africans hate homosexuality, and it is true that there was a strong culture of extended families to help folks survive in often harsh environments. Yet the African philosophy of "uBuntu" meant keeping families together even when members strayed from the heterosexual, married, and fertile ideal.
This meant tolerance accommodation with sexual difference as long as discretion was maintained. Enforced celibacy or abstinence, adultery, impotence, erotic preference for the same sex ... all these things were known and understood as part of the diversity of the world to which humans, ancestors and the yet-born could adapt.
Islam as traditionally practiced in Africa was also relatively accommodating to the fact that individuals sometimes strayed from the ideal moral behavior. The family could be maintained through all of that by using discretion and appropriate rituals, prayers, sacrifice and/or compensation.
Colonialism, Christianity and capitalism messed much of this up. The British in particular were almost systematic in their introduction of laws that criminalized male-male sex acts. European missionaries denounced them with the threat of eternal hell-fire. Families were meanwhile broken apart to serve the labor needs of the colonialists. Africans were taught that they had no history and no culture of value, indeed, maybe they were not even quite human.
Political independence unfortunately did not solve this ideological hangover. On the contrary, since the 1980s especially, bad governance and economic turmoil have left much of the population of Africa frustrated. We in the West should not forget our role in creating the present shambles in so many African countries, whether through assassinations, bribery, or more subtle economic thumbscrews.
The "Washington consensus" around neo-liberal structural adjustment was particularly devastating to families and social safety nets. In this context (rich getting richer, poor poorer), there is a widespread hunger for scapegoats and for simplistic solutions.

Third, mainstream faiths have not been very good at addressing Africans' need for spiritual meaning after so many decades of economic and political malaise. The American Christian Right has by contrast been very active, and well-funded, in stepping in to fill that void. There is compelling evidence that American evangelicals have been instrumental in promoting Africans who will spread the homophobic message, including ghost writing speeches and advising on the Anti-Homosexuality Bill in Uganda.
Let us not forget that homophobia is not yet dead and buried in the West before we jump on our high horses.
Marc Epprecht

A similar "homophobia international" may be happening in Muslim-majority countries where the Islamic Right is gaining ground over traditional Sufi beliefs. In a place like Nigeria, where sectarian violence is a looming threat to the stability of the nation, homophobia is one of the few points of agreement for canny politicians to calm the sectarian waters. In a place like Uganda, which some see acting as a mercenary for American geopolitical schemes in the region, denouncing the West's so-called social imperialism is an easy way to cover complicity in a resurgent real imperialism on the continent.
Finally, let us not forget that homophobia is not yet dead and buried in the West before we jump on our high horses. Maybe we can help our friends in Africa and ourselves by supporting African LGBTI in their efforts to strike at the Western roots of "African homophobia."
A federal court case in Massachusetts bears watching, in which Uganda activists are suing an American Pastor" who is charged with persecuting homosexuals.
Their triumph in that case will surely be a bigger blow for the global cause of human rights than cutting off aid or imposing other sanctions on African people.

DEAR PASTOR, WARN YOUR MEMBER 3

Abraham - February 28, 2014

Chukwuemeka arrived the church premises some minutes before 5pm. He moved over to the church annex; there was nobody there. On his way back to the main auditorium, he saw Chinwe and Cally making their way into the church premises.

They exchange greetings and everybody moved into the auditorium. Joy and Pat later joined exactly 5pm.

Cally: What happened; why the sudden summon?

Joy: Well, we are all here. We will soon find out

Chinwe: I remember the last time we were summoned like this. Our hairs were nearly removed.

Pat:  Hahaha! Chinwe; I can still recall that day like it was yesterday. How you kept fighting back tears.

Chinwe: See you. Who cried that day? Cally; you remember what you said to her that day?

Cally: Chinwe and I are friends now. I don’t look for her trouble anymore.

Chukwuemeka: I hear you. You no longer trouble her? Are you sure?

Chinwe: Don’t him! He is the number one ‘troubler’ of Israel.

Chuwuemeka: Pastor is here!

Joy: Ghen! Ghen!

All of them burst out laughing as the pastor made his way into the auditorium.

All: Good evening sir!

Pastor: God bless you. How are you all doing?

All: Fine sir!

Pastor: Sorry, I came late. I met the Area coordinator on my way.  Well, let’s start.  Chinwe; please say a word of prayer for us.

Chinwe said a very short opening prayer. Pastor Sampson continued from where he stopped before the prayer.

Pastor Sampson: The meeting is not going to be a long one. I just called the meeting for us to review your activities and see areas we can reinforce. I must confess, you guys have been awesome. I haven’t had any need to intervene in your activities.

They looked at their overall attendance and how they could make choir members adhere to the rules and be better representatives wherever they are. The excos were mandated to recruit at least ten members in the next two months. Pastor Sampson prayed for them and ended the meeting.

As they were going out, Pastor Sampson called Chukwuemeka.

Pastor Sampson: Ehen! Bro Chuks, there’s this letter I want us to look at together. Take, read it and tell me what you think.

The pastor handed over the letter to Chukwuemeka and watched him as he read through the letter.

Chukwuemeka: Rubbish! So is this the “I will show you” this man has been talking about. Rubbish.

Pastor Sampson: Are you saying these didn’t happen? Are you saying this man fabricated these things?

Chukwuemeka: Sir, you don’t need to break your head over this crap. Just come to the compound yourself. I will call a meeting of the people in the compound and invite him to say exactly all he wrote here.

Pastor Sampson: So why did he have to do this?

Chukwuemeka: I confronted him in the last meeting. For the past three months; he had not paid the NEPA bill we have been paying to him. He would come up with all sorts of bill for us to pay. I told him if everybody fell for him, I would not. He shouted me down and promised to show me in that compound. So this is what he planned to do to me? Pastor, please, ignore that man.

Pastor looking relieved and wishing Chukwuemeka told him all the truth.

Pastor Sampson: don’t worry I will find time and confront him.

Chukwuemeka: No problem sir. Anytime sir!

Pastor Sampson: Don’t confront him o. Just carry on as if you didn’t hear anything. I hope you greet him?

Chukwuemeka: Yes sir, I do.

Pastor Sampson: Great. Let’s go. I will look into this later.

Chukwuemeka: Okay sir.

The two exit the Church Premises.

Chukwuemeka met the rest of the excos waiting at the adjoining street to the church.

Pat: What is the matter? The way pastor called you back; there must be something.

Chukwuemeka: Nothing jare… I will tell you later.

Chinwe: Okay guys I have to run now. Come for practice early o

Chukwuemeka: Joy, you know why Pastor called me back?

Joy: My caretaker reported me to the Pastor. You won’t believe all the allegations he levelled against me.

Joy: Are you for real; what did he say you did?

Chukwuemeka: Pastor doesn’t want me to discuss the issue with anybody. The summary is the guy tried to tarnish my image. He came up with all manner of things.  Don’t worry, you will still hear everything in details at the appropriate time.

***The story continues***

Thursday, February 27, 2014

Fashionistas at the wheel: Meet the female biker gangs of Marrakech

Abraham - February 27, 2014

The word "motorcycle" often conjures up images of tattooed men wearing black leather jackets. Not so in Marrakech. The city's thriving bike culture includes plenty of women. With their polka dot veils and heart-shaped sunglasses, they're steering motorcycle fashion in their own direction.
Photographer Hassan Hajjaj has been snapping Marrakech street style and female cyclists for decades. Many of the subjects are his own friends, who he playfully calls Kesh Angels in his latest exhibition, which runs at New York's Taymour Grahne Gallery until March 7.
The exhibition show tradition mingling with modernity. It also counters stereotypes about Muslim women.
"When Westerners see a women with the veil a lot of them think, 'Do they really ride a bike?'" Hajjaj says. "If these women were in Italy they would look past that."

Hajjaj hoped to showcase Marrakech as it is, replete with its vibrant fashion and confident women. Here, a woman wears a traditional djellabah robe and poses on her Motobecane. "If you take a person who doesn't travel and who watches TV, they might view Morocco as another Syria or Iraq," Hajjaj says. "But it's its own country with its own vibe."


And that vibe includes plenty of independent women. Marrakech motorcycle culture welcomes everyone and society does not look down on female riders. "Journalists often ask, 'What do you think of women being covered up?'" Hajjaj says. "I find that silly. It's traditional clothing. It's not like anyone is holding a staff over them."

Hajjaj, who moved to London from Morocco at the age of 13, remembers how he and other immigrant children would sew name brand logos onto their jeans and shoes. That phenomenon transcends borders and time, as with these women who wear djellabah with the Nike swoosh. "In the so-called Third World there are many people wearing this to keep up with the westerners," Hajjaj says.

Hajjaj has been photographing Karima for 15 years. "She is one of my heroes," he says. "She does henna, is married, has two kids and works hard. She has swagger and speaks three languages."

In 1984 Hajjaj owned a London fashion boutique called RAP, short for Real Artistic People. "Sometimes the women have their own clothes and I photograph them in things they are wearing," he says. "Sometimes I add on stuff."

Finding locations for the photos came easy in Marrakech. "The medina and the new town were big inspirations," Hajjaj says. "Normally you have to fly seven hours from London to reach a place with such 'foreign style.'" He can be in Marrakech in half the time.

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Best places in Africa to sleep beneath the stars

Abraham - February 26, 2014

Chalkley Treehouse (South Africa)

A boon for photographers, this treehouse -- fully open to the elements -- is built around an ancient leadwood tree.A boon for photographers, this treehouse -- fully open to the elements -- is built around an ancient leadwood tree.

Lion Sands has three luxury treehouses in wilderness rich in wildlife.

The Chalkley Treehouse, a timber deck built around an ancient leadwood tree, is particularly good for photographers.

It's high off the ground and exposed, with superb panoramic views.

Kiboko and Koija star beds (Kenya)

Just you, the bed and the heavens above.Just you, the bed and the heavens above.

These "star beds" comprise wooden platforms with thatched roofs, open decks and big beds.

They're rolled out under the night sky when it's time to sleep, giving guests great views of the thick star clusters, unclouded by light pollution.

The mosquito net draping over the four-poster becomes invisible once you've climbed inside.

You can end up at your star bed after a game drive or other wildlife outing, when staff will be lighting the campfire and preparing pre-dinner sundowners.

Antelope and zebra may be drinking at the Kiboko waterhole in the valley below.

If you stay at one of Loisaba's two sets of star beds you'll have an extra reason to sleep comfortably -- they're part of a responsible tourism project that benefits the local Koija community.

Baines' Camp (Botswana)

At night, you can hear the throaty chuckling of hippos.

At night, you can hear the throaty chuckling of hippos.

Part of a small safari camp on a private concession in the Okavango Delta, the five suites here are built on stilts with decks looking out over wetlands.

On dry, warm nights, you can wheel your four-poster bed out to hear the throaty chuckling of hippos and the high-pitched chirrups of frogs.

Stilted Lodge (The Gambia)

The restroom in this two-story riverside tower is open air too -- though discreetly tucked away.

The restroom in this two-story riverside tower is open air too -- though discreetly tucked away.

The ordinary rooms here, set in a mangrove forest, are impressive enough.

But the Stilted Lodge adds something extra -- a thatched two-story riverside tower with open sides, including a (discreet) open-air bathroom, separate bedroom and lounge room open to the skies.

The Tree House (Zambia)

King-size bed, claw-footed bath and the Victoria Falls a few bends down the river.King-size bed, claw-footed bath and the Victoria Falls a few bends down the river.

You can't quite hear the roar of Victoria Falls from The Tree House but they're close.

The broad Zambezi River looks peaceful from the deck at the top of this three-tier treehouse, but a few bends away that all changes.

When it hits the lip of Batoka Gorge, the river hurls itself over at 3,000 cubic meters a second.

The spectacle has drawn visitors to the area since 1855, starting with the explorer David Livingstone.

There are multiple ways to experience the falls, from soaring through the spray in a microlight to rafting the rapids or bungee jumping from the Victoria Falls Bridge.

This riverside eyrie high up in an ebony tree, with king-size bed and claw-footed bath, provides a place to hide out after all that activity.

Chole Mjini Lodge (Tanzania)

Among the fig trees on this islet are half a dozen treehouses making up an off-grid eco-lodge.Among the fig trees on this islet are half a dozen treehouses making up an off-grid eco-lodge.

Some Swahili Coast aficionados have been to Zanzibar many times but never heard of its little cousin, the island of Mafia.

The name may sound ominous, but Mafia is a perfectly innocent island of sand and shimmering light, around 160 kilometers south of Zanzibar.

Of the few people who make it here, most are divers: in the surrounding waters whale sharks and turtles float above some of the best preserved coral reefs in Tanzania.

Mafia has an even tinier relative, Chole, an islet just over a kilometer long tucked off its southeastern shore.

Hidden among the dense mangroves, baobabs and tangled figs are half a dozen treehouses making up Chole Mjini, a simple off-grid eco-lodge.

Stay in Treehouse No.1, and you may have nesting fish eagles for neighbors.

LIVING IN LAGOS? HERE ARE THE RULES OF ENGAGEMENT

Abraham - February 26, 2014

First of all; introduction. Okay, I kid;there’s no introduction.

I was just thinking what difference it would make if we paid attention or observed certain things we otherwise ignored? Well, here, I have compiled some things you need to observe to avoid  troubles in Lagos.

Enjoy the trip.

1. Do not open an account in a branch nearest to your house. O dikwa risky!

2. Once in a while watch football matches in viewing centres closer to where you reside. It gives you an idea of the type of people that live in your neighbourhood.

3. Avoid dating those small girls in your neighbourhood.  You expose yourself to danger by doing so. It also decreases your ‘rep’ in the area.

4. Avoid taking a permanent seat at a mama put. Rotate where you eat; so that thy days may be long in Lagos.

5. You see Ashi? Avoid them; they do not have your interest at heart. It does matter if your third leg is telling you otherwise.

6. As much as you can; mind your own business.

7. Don’t argue football in a viewing centre you are visiting for the first; for some have received hot slap in time past.

8. Don’t tell it all when you are visiting a salon for the first time. Your story will get to CNN before you know it.

9. Do not despise the ‘Aboki’ on your street. They have a way of knowing one or two things about your area.

10. At all cost, avoid taking/plying the roads popularly known as ‘one way’.

11. Always keep extra boots in the house especially if you are a striker. If you are not in that line of business; don’t bother after all the sea only drowns people in it.

12. Cut down on I.O.U. Freedom is priceless.

13. Avoid Lotto/Baba Ijebu. Even 9ce said so in his song.

14. Make one or two lawyers your friends. It does matter if they are just charge and bail. You will need them in the time of trouble.

15. When you finally buy your car; take it easy on our Lagos sisters. Just because they said bye when you said hi when you didn’t have a car doesn’t mean you must take it out on them.

16. Avoid BRT Lanes. If LASTMA doesn’t catch you; those BRT drivers may not spare your car.

17. Ask for the meaning of the signs on the apartment you intend to pay for before payment. There are strong myths surrounding signs on buildings in Lagos.

18. “No refund after payment.” Don’t play with that phrase; Lagosians love to implement that phase to the latter.

19. Never fight with a conductor. You will lose either ways.

20.  Shine your eyes when you are dealing with agents. It is increasingly difficult to tell a mad man from a mechanic.

Finally, Sanusi Sues Jonathan Over ‘Illegal’ Suspension

Abraham - February 26, 2014

Ousted Governor of Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), Sanusi Lamido Sanusi has finally concretised his threat to sue President Goodluck Jonathan over his removal as head of the bank last week.

According to a suit filed at a Federal High Court sitting in Abuja late on Monday, Sanusi is challenging his suspension from office; and he has implored the court to, among others, restrain the president — alongside Attorney General of the Federation (AGF) and the Inspector General of Police (IGP) — from giving effect to his suspension, pending the determination of his lawsuit.

He is also seeking an order of interlocutory injunction restraining the defendants from obstructing, disturbing, stopping or preventing him in any manner, from performing the functions of his office and enjoying in full, the statutory powers and privileges attached to the office of the governor of the CBN.

Making a case for the reasons why the court should grant the prayers in his interlocutory application, he said the president’s unlawful interference with the management and administration of the CBN can only be left unaddressed at the expense of the country’s economy. Granting his application, he argued, will encourage parties to maintain the status quo until the determination of the substantive case.

In a supporting affidavit, Sanusi maintained that his suspension is the consequence of his outcry over the $20bn in crude oil sales that was unremitted by the Nigeria National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC). He explained that while performing his duties as Governor of CBN, he discovered certain discrepancies in respect of amounts repatriated to the federation account from the proceed of crude oil sales between the period of January 2012 and July 2013.

He said he expressed concerns about the said discrepancies and went ahead to notify the National Assembly, considering its huge effect on revenue of the federation and the national economy. His suspension, he insisted, is aimed at punishing him for the disclosures.

Sanusi stated clearly that he was challenging the president’s power to suspend him from office, especially as the Senate was not approached to ratify the decision.

“I have been informed, and I verily believe the information given to me by Senator Bukola Saraki to be true and correct that the Senate did not give the president any support for my purported suspension and removal from office as Governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria”, a part of the document read.

He described his suspension as a contravention of provisions of the Central Bank of Nigeria Act relating to the appointment and removal of the CBN Governor. He therefore branded the act an unlawful interference in the administration and management of the apex bank, which is illegal, null and void.

President Goodluck Jonathan suspended Sanusi Lamido as CBN Governor on 20th February 2014, claiming reliance on a report of the Financial Reporting Council of Nigeria (FRCN) that indicted the governor of “financial recklessness and misconduct”.

But the widespread belief is that Sanusi’s suspension was triggered by his well-documented outspokenness, particularly his recent revelation of NNPC’s failure to remit $20bn in crude oil sales to the federation account.

During his presidential media chat yesterday, Jonathan claimed that Sanusi remains the governor of CBN, yet the president nominated both an Acting Governor and a substantive replacement for Sanusi exactly on the day his suspension was announced.

    Tuesday, February 25, 2014

    Russian President Vladimir Putin Rebukes U.S. for Abandoning God and Christian Values by Promoting Homosexuality and Homosexual Marriage

    Abraham - February 25, 2014

    Russian Orthodox Church Patriarch Kirill I has echoed President Vladimir Putin's view that Western countries are engaging in a "spiritual disarmament" of their people. (Misha Japaridze, Associated Press)

    Russian Orthodox Church Patriarch Kirill I has echoed President Vladimir Putin’s view that Western countries are engaging in a “spiritual disarmament” of their people. (Misha Japaridze, Associated Press)

    President Vladimir Putin, former KGB Agent of a Once-atheist Nation, Rebukes America, a Once-Christian Nation by Saying that by Forsaking Traditional Christian Values and Putting Same-sex Marriage on the Same Level as Traditional Marriage with a Man, Woman, and Children, the Nation is Forsaking God and Believing in Satan and Will be Led into Degradation and Chaotic Darkness.

    At the height of the Cold War, it was common for American conservatives to label the officially atheist Soviet Union a “godless nation.”

    More than two decades on, history has come full circle, as the Kremlin and its allies in the Russian Orthodox Church hurl the same allegation at the West.

    “Many Euro-Atlantic countries have moved away from their roots, including Christian values,” Russian President Vladimir Putin said in a recent keynote speech. “Policies are being pursued that place on the same level a multi-child family and a same-sex partnership, a faith in God and a belief in Satan. This is the path to degradation.”

    In his state of the nation address in mid-December, Mr. Putin also portrayed Russia as a staunch defender of “traditional values” against what he depicted as the morally bankrupt West. Social and religious conservatism, the former KGB officer insisted, is the only way to prevent the world from slipping into “chaotic darkness.”

    As part of this defense of “Christian values,” Russia has adopted a law banning “homosexual propaganda” and another that makes it a criminal offense to “insult” the religious sensibilities of believers.

    The law on religious sensibilities was adopted in the wake of a protest in Moscow’s largest cathedral by a female punk rock group against the Orthodox Church’s support of Mr. Putin. Kremlin-run television said the group’s “demonic” protest was funded by “some Americans.”

    Mr. Putin’s views of the West were echoed this month by Patriarch Kirill I of Moscow, the leader of the Orthodox Church, who accused Western countries of engaging in the “spiritual disarmament” of their people.

    In particular, Patriarch Kirill criticized laws in several European countries that prevent believers from displaying religious symbols, including crosses on necklaces, at work.

    FREEBIES HAVE A NIGERIAN SURNAME

    Abraham - February 25, 2014

    freebies

    Freebies have a Nigerian surname. It is called Awoof!

    I love freebies, you love freebie and we love freebies. In Naija, as far as it free, forget it; we all will grab our share. Why not? Nobody wants to be ‘chanced’ or be tagged a learner.  Freebies have no class; at least not in Nigeria.

    If you doubt this, then you have not attended a wedding or a party in Lagos. I’m not even referring to weddings or parties in Mushin or Iyana Ipaja; I’m talking about weddings in the high brow areas of Lagos. Chineke Nna! I was in one of such weddings recently. Our table supposedly had people that can afford to feed the multitude; however, the more things were brought to the table, the little we had to share.

    When the wedding reception was over; you needed to see the faces of some of those women that sat with us on the table. You know that “come and touch me naa” kind of look.

    That experience is the crux of this piece.  We are looking at all the freebies we love as a people. Stay with me; let’s count them together. If you are ready; let’s go. 1, 2, go ooo!

    Free Food

    Free Airtime

    Free Ride

    Free Shows

    Free Training

    Free Lunch

    Free BIS

    Free Shopping

    Free trips

    Free drinks

    Free samples

    Free movies

    Free games

    Free books

    Free downloads

    Free data

    Free booze

    Free hug

    Free sex

    There you have them people; there is nothing as sweet as something for nothing.

    BEHOLD EKENE: A MAN WANTED BY A MOTHER AND HER TWO DAUGHTERS

    Abraham - February 25, 2014

    His second visit was all it took for Nma to make up her mind she was going to have a piece of Ekene. Ekene had come the previous day with Ifeoma to her mom’s shop. Ifeoma was excited to introduce to her mom for the first time somebody she called “my man.” Her mom, Nma had been on her neck to introduce the guy she had always spoken so eloquently about.

    “Mom, meet my friend Ekene.  Ekene, this is my one and only mother” the excited Ifeoma looked on as the pair exchanged pleasantries. “Ekene, how are you?” Nma quizzed as she looked sternly at the piece of cloth she was trying to put together.

    “Ifeoma has said a lot about you; I hope you are exactly who she described to me?” Nma continued. “Ifeoma, offer him a seat, or you want another visitor to come along?”Ekene and Ifeoma left the shop after spending about an hour with Nma.

    Nma’s husband, Denis was late. He died when Ifeoma was five years old. Chisom, Ifeoma’s only sister was barely three at the time of their father’s demise.The burden of raising the two girls fell squarely on the then young and tender Nma. She had to use part of the money she got during her husband’s funeral to set up her sewing shop.

    Nma watched the little Ifeoma and Chisom become adult. Ifeoma had become a nurse while Chisom took after her mother’s line of business.  Nma was excited to see Chisom take after her; establishing a much bigger and modern designer shop. The two girls were doing well.

    After the demise of Denis, Nma had attempted to date three times; all of which ended abruptly.

    The third date which lasted more than six months was cut short when Ifeoma confronted her mother for dating a man as young as she was. Ifeoma couldn’t understand what her mother could possibly be doing with a man that young. It was one of those sore moments between Ifeoma and her mother.

    After the incident, Ifeoma did not see any man hang around her mother; though she suspected she could be dating secretly.

    Nma was unable to shake off the image of Ekene from her mind. He was the kind of man she had always wanted to date. Ekene was tall and handsome. He spoke very softly and laughed very heartily.

    Nma knew the implication of her urge. The fantasy driven urge grew to the extent of almost driving her crazy.

    One afternoon, Ifeoma received an email “Dear Ifeoma, we are pleased to inform you that after your application to study Master of Health Sciences (Specialist Nursing) program has been approved…”

    Ifeoma was so elated. Her dream of specializing abroad was coming to fruition.  She did not want to mention the plan to anybody until everything worked out.

    “Hello mom, I have good news for you. I will be leaving for America in two months…erm…well Ma’am I didn’t want to tell anybody because I didn’t want to be discouraged. I will explain everything when we see. Bye.”

    Ifeoma did not know what to make out of the way her mother sounded on the phone. She didn’t betray any emotions.

    Ifeoma tried in vain in reaching Ekene on the phone. She sent a text message. “Hi Ekene, I have been trying to reach you on the phone. Please call me once you see this message; I have an urgent message to pass across to you.”

    Ekene did not see the message until later in the night. His battery was flat all day. “Hi babe, hope you are fine? I just saw your message…when? You mean you didn’t consider it wise to mention your plan to me?”Ekene ended the call in anger.

    “Why is everybody reacting this way, Can’t somebody see with me?”

    Ifeoma made up her mind that she wasn’t going to be apologetic about her dreams and plans. “When they were wishing me the all best, what were they thinking?”

    A night before Ifeoma’s trip, Chisom came over to help arrange her things. She was happy her sister would become one of the leading lights in her career when she returned home.

    Ekene was not happy Ifeoma was travelling but he knew there was nothing he could about the decision. The thought that Ifeoma would be away for nearly two years was sickening to him.

    Ifeoma arrived safely. She called everybody to inform them. The tasks ahead would be very daunting; getting used to her new environment, registration and making new friends. Her fees were not an issue. She had saved more than enough money to see her through her stay in the United States. Chisom also gave her some substantial amount in support of her dreams.

    After one month that Ifeoma travelled, Ekene had not visited Nma or Chisom. Nma called Chisom one afternoon to find out if Ekene was still in touch with her. Chisom told her mom that she hadn’t heard from Ekene since Ifeoma travelled.

    The following day, Nma called Ekene. “Ekene is this how we are going to do this In-law thing? Since Ifeoma travelled, you haven’t called or come to see how we are doing.” “Have you called Chisom since Ifeoma travelled?  You see… this is not proper o.” All excuses Ekene advanced were rebuffed by Nma. He then promised to make amends by visiting.

    The following weekend, Ekene visited the house. Nma hadn’t closed from her shop. He went to the shop to see her. Nma was happy to see Ekene his crush again. She moved over to where Ekene seated and brushed his hairs with her hand “see your head; you just abandoned your in-law.”

    Ekene giggled a bit, squeezed his palms together “Ma’am is not like I don’t want to visit; it’s just time.”

    “So how did this time come out?” Nma queried jokingly.  Ekene waited until close of business. He accompanied Nma home. When he indicated he wanted to go; Nma refused insisting he must eat dinner before leaving. A request Ekene obliged.  Before long, dinner was ready. Ekene left shortly after dinner.

    Three days later, Nma took ill and was admitted at the hospital. Doctor said she had suffered extreme fatigue. She was discharged the following day after she recovered from the fatigue. The Doctor advised her to go home and rest for a week before resuming at the shop.

    Chisom had to move into her mom’s place to look after her until she fully recovered.

    To be continued…

    NB: The picture above is for illustration purposes only.

    Supermodels locked inside giant bubbles floating across the city. Why??

    Abraham - February 25, 2014

    Photographer Melvin Sokolsky captured the now legendary "Bubble" series in 1963 in Paris, for Harper's Bazaar. The only photo retouching involved was to remove traces of an 1/8th inch cable which held the sphere.Photographer Melvin Sokolsky captured the now legendary "Bubble" series in 1963 in Paris, for Harper's Bazaar. The only photo retouching involved was to remove traces of an 1/8th inch cable which held the sphere.

    This photo, "Bubble Seine", was recently named as the most iconic image in 100 years of fashion by the Victoria and Albert Museum in London.

    This photo, "Bubble Seine", was recently named as the most iconic image in 100 years of fashion by the Victoria and Albert Museum in London.

    The series is widely credited with starting a trend of high-concept, artistic fashion shoots which push boundaries.The series is widely credited with starting a trend of high-concept, artistic fashion shoots which push boundaries.

    The photos start with models suspended over river Seine, then moves into the city streets, evoking adventurous, surreal imagery.The photos start with models suspended over river Seine, then moves into the city streets, evoking adventurous, surreal imagery.

    The dreamlike scene of a floating bubble was inspired by The Garden of Earthly Delights, a triptych by the early Netherlandish painter Hieronymus Bosch.The dreamlike scene of a floating bubble was inspired by The Garden of Earthly Delights, a triptych by the early Netherlandish painter Hieronymus Bosch.

    The sphere, inside which models displayed high-end fashion designs, was made of plexiglass and aircraft aluminum, and took ten days to manufacture.The sphere, inside which models displayed high-end fashion designs, was made of plexiglass and aircraft aluminum, and took ten days to manufacture.

    Here Simone D'Aillencourt, one of Sokolsky's models of choice, seemingly floats ethereally among trees. Here Simone D'Aillencourt, one of Sokolsky's models of choice, seemingly floats ethereally among trees.

    Some images are framed so that the cable holding the sphere is outside the photo, and Sokolsky maintains that with enough distance and a little back light, even a direct shot of the cable would not necessarily be visible.

    Some images are framed so that the cable holding the sphere is outside the photo, and Sokolsky maintains that with enough distance and a little back light, even a direct shot of the cable would not necessarily be visible.

    Some of the clothes, especially the shoes, were damaged when the bubble was lowered too close to the water, which could have contributed to the series eventually moving over dry land.Some of the clothes, especially the shoes, were damaged when the bubble was lowered too close to the water, which could have contributed to the series eventually moving over dry land.

    Several of the frames feature bystanders looking in awe at the strange sight of the hovering orb, which Sokolsky worked into strong compositions.Several of the frames feature bystanders looking in awe at the strange sight of the hovering orb, which Sokolsky worked into strong compositions.

    One frame in the series is set against the other fashion capital - New York.

    One frame in the series is set against the other fashion capital - New York.

    Here photographer Melvin Sokolsky, model Simone D'Aillencourt, and crew pose beside the bubble in Paris.Here photographer Melvin Sokolsky, model Simone D'Aillencourt, and crew pose beside the bubble in Paris.

    10 lessons everyone should learn from that $16 billion Facebook just gave WhatsApp

    Abraham - February 25, 2014
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    So now that we’ve wiped our jaws on the floor, and (kind of) come to terms with the sheer hugeness of the huge buy that Facebook just confirmed for the hugely successful WhatsApp, we’ve scanned through the African – and especially Nigerian – ecosystem reactions, and we’ve got 10 simple lessons people are sharing.
    One sentence for each. #NoTime – some people are counting their billions already.

    1. Don’t. You. Ever. Stop. Moving. The dramatic difference five years has made in the life of Brian Acton is enough to give pause.




    2. WhatsApp focused on building its user base – headed for a billions users.

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    3. Mobile Only versus Mobile First. We’re on the right path, Africa.

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    4. High Risk, High Returns – Sequioa – $60mn and only investor getting $3bn.

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    5. Engagement is key – Zuck admits WhatsApp did more engagement than Facebook. He obviously couldn’t sleep on this.

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    6. Align with the future – Zuck got 1 billion users with Facebook and plans to get next 1 billion with mobile and WhatsApp was already on track.

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    7. Build a kick ass product – WhatsApp is nothing but kick ass. Simple. Cross platform. Awesome UX, UI, and innovative.

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    8. Patient dog. Fattest bone. Instagram – $1bn, Snapchat – $3bn(offered), WhatsApp – $16bn.

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    9. Mark Zuckerberg now owns half the world. He is the AntiChrist.

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    10. [Insert your local proverb here]

     
    Over to you, motivational speakers and pastors!

    PHOTOs: Ejigbo Pepper Sodomy And Murder Case : Police Parades 10 Suspects, Declares Four Others Wanted

    Abraham - February 25, 2014

    Police PPRO Frank Mba and Women Arise Exec. Director, Dr. Joe Okei-Odumakin

    The Nigeria Police Force today paraded ten suspects arrested in connection with the torture, murder and sodomy of three females accused of stealing pepper in the Ejigbo area of Lagos State, an event that occured in February 2013.

    The police held a conference at the Special Anti-Robbery Squad unit in Lagos, parading the suspects.
    The paraded suspects included the Babaloja of the Ejigbo Market, Isiaka Waheed, the Iyaloja and several others persons   involved in the heinous crime.

    Addressing the press, the Police PPRO, Mr. Frank Mba declared four other suspects who are still at large, wanted.
    Those wanted in the crime include Tiri (surname unknown), the suspect who stripped the young girl naked and also captured the torture on tape; Tepa Oluranti
    Akeem (surname unknown) and Michael Abolore.

    The Nigeria police headquarters , the Lagos State Office of the Public Defender (OPD) and civil society organizations led by the Women Arise team thanked members of the public who volunteered information that helped in tracking the   suspects. They urged the public to assist with information that could lead to the arrest of the other suspects at large.

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